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Q&A: My grandpa is cheating on my grandma…? Help me with figuring out this divorce….?

Question by Jasmine: My grandpa is cheating on my grandma…? Help me with figuring out this divorce….?
I’m a college student and do not know much about the divorce process and/or divorce lawyers. My “grandpa” (not by blood) drove my grandma into debt. It got so bad that their house is facing foreclosure and he sold back my grandma’s car without her permission. He came to my father asking for $ 10,000…. and ended up admitting to my father that he married ANOTHER woman while still married to my grandma. He asked my father not to tell anyone (which of course he told me and my mom)… and we are trying to figure out what we can do. I know my grandma would never want to hurt her husband, so we are afraid when we tell her she will just not be strong enough to pursue the divorce.

Since my grandma is in so much debt BECAUSE of her husband (We found out her purchased his new wife a ring for $ 10,000)… is there something a divorce lawyer can do to help out my grandma?

Also, how the heck did he manage to marry twice? And… he told my father that he never signed the new “marriage papers”… would there be a way to find evidence on this new marriage, even if perhaps it was never fully legalized? We know they married in a church close to their house…. can the church release those records?

I know this is so much, but any advice overnight would help. Thanks.

Best answer:

Answer by carly!
Eww.

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